F*ck Yes or F*ck Off!

In a conscious, Anami-style relationship, the only acceptable answer to any invitation from your partner is: F*CK YES!!!
Would you like to learn...

From Divorce Court to 4-Hour Sex Dates

In today’s episode we interview a couple who have had the most dramatic—and fastest—turnaround I’ve ever seen. 


They were in a *be...

Talking Heads: When Genitals Speak, We Listen

As in, our genitals are oracles. When they speak, they reveal our innermost truths. 
We can have conversations with our own genitals. What’s eve...

Squirting Saved Our Marriage

One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of:  Fuck them until you change them. 


Our sex acts have...

Bring Back Manly Men

A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. 
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8E...

Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men

Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. 


Because she’ll MAKE...

5 Superpower Couple Problems Worth Having

Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them.<...

Underf**ked Orcs vs. Kim Anami

Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: 
That I don’t take HRT. 
They ca...

My Body, My Oracle vs. My Body, My Enemy

Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack.
In an era of every biohacke...

Self-Healed Prolapse with the Jade Yoni Egg

My vagina does amaaaaaazing things. 
Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like: 
Of course, we want women to realize that...

From Zero to Multiple Orgasms in Weeks

For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one.
She took Vaginal Kung Fu and w...

Create Your Dream Life with Your Vagina

I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life a...

Coming Off HRT with Vaginal Kung Fu

Look ma! No hormones! 
These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your v...

Support Group for Hot, Sexy, Fit, Orgasmic People

We need love too! 
It’s really hard being in this category. 

Seriously, it is. 

A lot of hard work. Like, every day. <...

Study Bros and Hormone Hoes

Study bros, hormone hoes and biohacking bitches vs. my orgasms.
“OH LOOK A NEW STUDY CAME OUT AND NOW HRT IS REALLY ACTUALLY SAFE!” 
“Look...

Should Love Feel Safe?

On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relations...

Is Chemistry a Red Flag?

Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"?
Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red f...

Why I've Never Dated

I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. 
My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense,...

Be a Man with a Plan

“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.”
Is music to a woman’s ears. 
And her vagina.
IT NEVER GETS OLD. 
Be...

"My Dick Grew So Big!"

9 Qualities of a Modern Alpha Male

I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild: 
The alpha male. 
There’s...

Softcock to Supercock

Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure.
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The cock is the ultimate barometer of th...

10 Steps to Sexual Mastery for Men

These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman. 


The good news? Th...

Wealthy and Well-F**ked

My vagina makes money. 


In this episode: 
Everything you need to master your sexual healing, self-expression and yoni cash m...

Honesty: the New Lube

“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne
“Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-...

Yo, Libido! Wherefore art Thou?

Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure. 

I guarantee...

Vixen in the Boardroom

How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is...

5 Steps to Remove Painful Periods

For many women, their periods are agonizing experiences. 


For a week out of every month—and longer for some women—they suffer excr...

50, F**kable and UnF**kwithable

A new epoch is upon us. There are f**kable 50 year olds on TV and in movies. 
From some big-name actresses to some online “influencers” there is...

I'm so F**king Hot for Myself!

“I can’t wait to come home and… fuck myself!” 

 “I daydream all day about fucking…myself!” 


“I’m counting the minutes...

Why I Love to Be F**ked Soft

I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements. 


Sl...

Why I Love to Be F**ked Hard

Sometimes—oftentimes—I need to get really pounded. 


I need to get thrust all over the bed, I need to be grabbing sheets and bed fr...

5 Ways to Become a Multi-Orgasmic Couple

Coming together: the holy grail of being sexually in sync for a couple. 
It’s easy when both of you are having dozens of orgasms in a session. <...

Cock Cured My Depression

Cock is medicine. Sex is medicine.
But not just any cock or any sex. We’re talking high-caliber, high-performing cocks full of love. Well-occupi...

21st Century Tantra

Sometimes people ask me if I can recommend a Tantra teacher. 
I tell them I am one. I’ve been studying and practicing Tantra for over 30 years. ...

"No walls, and ready for my husband anytime!”

The ultimate goal in a well-f**ked couple is to be open to each other all the time. Always humming with erotic energy. 


Knowing lo...

How to Transmute Sexual Energy as a Couple

Through my work, I’ve seen people self-heal everything from fibroids, cysts and endometriosis, to erectile issues to difficult periods and menopause a...

5 Phrases to Open and Turn Her On—Instantly!

What happens when you say the magic words? The ones that open hearts and legs? 


Your whole world and woman change. 
She tran...

How to Invite Your Partner into Anami Land

So you’ve discovered Anami Land! And now you want your partner to as well. 


How do you get them onboard to create your most epic s...

Is Your Vibrator Cockblocking Your Sex Life?

Are you into group sex? Are you having regular threesomes? Is your girlfriend involved in a secret relationship you just can’t compete with? You may b...